Failure: It’s not the End
What do you think what a failure is? Something that ends up the path you’re going on? Well, at the very moment yes you may feel that. I know how it is because I too faced it. It feels like I’m the only one left behind while the whole world has moved ahead. A storm rises up inside, which is apparently silent but comes along with ignite that can burn every inch of you. Sometimes there is no hope left after all. You’re filled with anger and hatred, although that’s not what you want. I myself use to get offended over little things and reacted dis-pleasingly. Though felt bad afterwards that but was not able to control myself at the moment. This pique grew more and more day by day. Eventually I started to blame God for this failure, as most of us do. I did not even hope for some miracle. I was disheartened and do not wished to do anything else. Months passed in this agony. My desire to try on had finished.
One day while I was buying some household stuff at the market, I saw a child hardly ten years of age working on a mechanic shop on the road nearby. The elder people called him out every minute and gave him work such as fixing the tires and tightening the clutch pedals and whenever he made even a little mistake they beat him up very badly. I thought why he doesn’t let it go and do some other work and decided to talk to him. When I approached him and asked him to do some other work instead, I still remember what he replied me back with, ‘I do not want to do this myself but I’m helpless. If I return home with nothing in my hand what would my sister and I eat?’. This made me very emotional so I asked him that doesn’t he want to go to school like others? He said, obviously he do. He feels bad whenever he see children of his age passing by him in uniforms. Then he looked up towards the sky and smiled and said but I know one day I will make it up and He has to make my life better. I was so touched by his words that my eyes were filled with tears. I tried to give him some money but he refused to take it saying that if he had to beg he would have done it before. I couldn’t stand there for one more minute and went away.
That whole day I could not get of his innocent face from my sight. I could not get my mind off his smile. And that was the day when I thought that what am I doing to myself? God has given me a life way too much better than thousands of people around me and I’m wasting it over just one failure, while that little child was bearing the physical and mental torture daily with so much guts. That day I decided that I’m not going to sit in the room ruing over my failure. I am going to try no matter how many times I knock down. I tried my luck once more and in a very few tries I was able to again cope up with everything.
A lesson which I learned from it was that we have to realize that failure does not mean the game is over but it is to try again with experience. Thomas Edison said that I haven’t failed. I have found ten thousand ways that won’t work. And this is what we all need to understand. If we fall ninety nine times, there is still a hope that that hundredth try would be ours and we will stand up at it. Success is not a straight path to walk on and achieve the goal, but it is a path full of hurdles and failures and one cannot reach to those goals without failing. Failure is a part of success, in which you cannot succeed without trying. Do not worry about failures, worry about the chances you miss when you don’t try. Those failures are the experiences like gold coins in your treasure. I now feel that yesterday ended up last night and a dawn is waiting for you to rise and shine. Giving up is never an option. Yes, it’s not the end but a chance to start up again.